I've made a fair bit of progress and I've done a lot between the two servers, so I've made the decision that I'm bored of grinding day in and day out just farming. It's gotten boring and repetitive. I loved the server for the time I've been here, but it's time for me to move on, so before I do I...
Calling people names then crying about it.... uhhhm no. From what I see above you are in the wrong here.... people can be annoying /ignore is an option.... I suggest you do that but within a week I'd bet half the survival server would be ignored.
I just avoid breaking any rules to any degree. That way nothing happens. Slip up once and it's just prone to more happening.
In the almost 2 years I've been here I don't think I've had a single punishment...